Aitor Gomez Matias

Helping individuals and teams move from autopilot to conscious, effective action.

Time to slow down, think things through and decide what to do next.Individual coaching · Team coaching · FacilitationExplore how we can work together

How we can work together

Individual coaching
Facing a difficult decision, a change at work or something you keep coming back to? We take time to explore it and work out your next step.Team coaching
Look at how you work together, talk about what gets in the way and agree what you want to change.Facilitation
I help groups have the conversations they need to have, work through disagreements and make decisions.

Let’s talkMessage me on LinkedIn and tell me what you have in mind. We can have a first conversation and see whether I can help.

It is easy to keep going without stopping to ask whether the way we work or live still makes sense.I help individuals and teams slow down, question what they take for granted and choose what they want to do differently.

How we can work together

Coaching (individual and teams)

You might be considering a change at work, finding your way as a leader or trying to understand why the same difficulty keeps coming back.In individual coaching, we explore what matters to you and what you want to do about it. With teams, we work on the relationships and habits that affect how you work together.

Facilitation & hosting

Some conversations need someone whose job is to help everyone take part and keep the discussion moving.I design and facilitate workshops and group conversations around what you need to work through. This might mean agreeing priorities, working through competing demands or deciding how to move forward together.

Approaches we can draw on

Flow Game uses questions and conversation to help you look at something that matters to you. I host it with individuals and groups.I also draw on relationship systems coaching (ORSC), Leadership Circle Profile, Liberating Structures and Art of Hosting. We choose an approach that fits what you want to explore.

What shaped my work

I started as an engineer, developing solar inverters and working with motor drives. At Danfoss, I became increasingly interested in how people work together and what makes a workplace worth being part of.That interest led me into team and enterprise coaching. At Danfoss and now Ørsted, my work has ranged from developing technology to coaching teams and leaders, changing how organisations work, and connecting strategy with priorities and delivery.Host & Act grew out of the same interest: helping people step out of autopilot, understand what is going on and act more consciously.I am from Asturias, Spain, and have lived in Denmark since 2008. Sønderborg is home.

My background and approach

My engineering background still shapes how I work. I am curious about how things connect, and especially how people affect one another.I have trained in Enterprise Coaching (ICAgile), Organisation & Relationship Systems Coaching (ORSC), Leadership Circle Profile and Art of Hosting. I continue to learn and develop my coaching practice.You can expect me to listen, ask questions and challenge you when it helps. We work with what matters to you and look at how you can put what you learn into practice.

Occasional reflections

I write occasionally about leadership, coaching and things that make me stop and think. If you would like to read along, you can subscribe below.

Recent reflectionsWhen the talk becomes the learning · 03/08/2026Before we call it luck · 08/07/2026Nobody finds love at the library · 16/04/2026Conversations & eventsI would like to bring people together for conversations and workshops, both online and here in Sønderborg. When I have something planned, I will share it here.Have an idea for a workshop or a conversation? Let’s talk on LinkedIn.